Follow your path. Define yourself and that is how others will see you.

Do not measure yourself by your relationships, do not let your relationships define who you are, but rather, be aware of how you conduct yourself in a relationship.

Explore who you are, define and pursue your goals, and be with yourself first. A relationship should not stand in the way of your goals, it should flow with them. In the end all you have is yourself. Develop that relationship first, the rest will follow.

Release the belief system that holds you back. On some level you know what that is. The knowledge is always within yourself.